If you have recently won a marital battle by proving that you were right, your marriage actually lost the war, because it destroyed its options to see other and perhaps better solutions based on other realities.
The end of a loving relationship is only a victory if it teaches us more about how to love and bond more strongly.
No marriage can carry the burden of two selfish egos or even one narcissistic ego...
Anybody can enjoy quality time, but the challenge of miracle marriages is to flourish even through the junk times.
To laugh, to cry, to work, and to love forever is the most remarkable accomplishment imaginable - a true miracle.